Was making some fun plans with someone for the past few days, but unfortunately circumstances changed and now those plans are off the table. If you happen to see this, S, no hard feelings! There's was never any obligation to me, so don't think I'm mad!

Though unfortunately, now I'm horny. And I'm hoping I can find someone interested in making some fantasies come to life.

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So right off the bat, I want to say that I'm not going to sound very intense with this post. As much as I want to get us both off, I'd rather we both feel comfortable with each other first, so we know we can actually trust each other before anything happens. I don't plan on really getting into character, so to speak, until we're both committed to hooking up. It might hurt the fantasy a bit, but I'd rather things be a bit less realistic if it means we both feel safer.

One of the first conversations I want us to have is a serious talk on rules, limits, and safe words. Everyone has different expectations and hopes for kinks like this, and I want to make sure that I'm properly accommodating. As fun as spontaneity is in this kink, it's very important to me that whatever we end up doing doesn't cross any boundaries for either of us. I want to push your limits, not violate your trust.

As part of this, I'm not expecting you to just randomly meet me and agree to fuck out of the blue. There's plenty of risk to meeting random men online, especially hooking up for such a kink like this. I want to make sure you trust me, as consent is the most important art of CNC. So what I'd like to propose is this: We talk online for a while, figuring each other out, and once you decide you're comfortable with me, we can meet at a place of your choosing. It'll be a completely platonic, non-sexual encounter where we make sure we're comfortable with one another, I won't even lay a hand on you besides a handshake. All I ask is that we exchange photos before this point as a gesture of trust.

At no point is there ever going to be an expectations or requirements to go farther or do something you aren't comfortable with. If you decide you don't vibe with me, or ultimately think we work better as friends, I completely respect it. Outside of the context of roleplaying, I'm never going to pressure you into doing anything you don't want.

There's a few fantasies I have in mind that I'd love to see played out, but they're all dependent on what you as a partner want, which we can absolutely discuss together. What I did last time was inviting my partner over to cook for them, and helped myself to their body as payment. I love to cook, and would gladly do it again, though I have a few other ideas involving blindfolds and paddles I'd be up for as well~

I'm not looking for anything specific from a partner in regards to things like body type or age(as long as you're of legal age, that is). All I'm looking for is someone interested in talking and potentially hooking up.

To describe myself, I'm 6'3", with a bit of a belly. I really like cooking and have a wicked sweet tooth, so I've been having a hard time cutting back a bit >.> Been working on it for a while, but it's always kind of a back and forth where I drop the weight and gain it back. C'est la vie. For now, hope you don't mind dad bods.