I originally posted in r/consenualnonconsent and the Mods thought this would be a better fit.
Myself (41M) and my wife (38F) have been playing with CnC for many years now. So long that our dynamic has evolved into Freeuse because although we both enjoy the spontaneity, application of force, intensity, and whatever the primal drive is that makes CnC fun for us; we've found that in order for penetration to occur she has to play along with the "act" by not actively fighting back. Its darn near impossible for me to get my penis lined up when she does something simple like bucking and twisting her hips. And when we've tried ultra hard difficulty by having her resist as best as she could it's truly impossible. I hold her arms she shuts her legs together tightly. I try and pry her legs open, she simulates poking me in the eye. I can't even get her pants or underwear off without her playing along by raising her hips. For a visual I'm atheletically built 5'8" 160lbs. She's a tiny 5'2" 90lbs.
The only way we've surmised to make it realistic is if I were to hurt (not harm) her in such a way that she decides to go along. But that's just too risky for us. We know that some playing along is baked into the play for all CnC. But is "playing along" to the degree of raising your hips and opening your legs a regular part of CnC for women? Or are we doing it wrong?
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