Hey,

So, this is new for me and my first ad, so let's see if I can share and hopefully meet someone, mostly get my dreams/fantasies/wishes answered.

I have this scenario in my mind where basically I have full control over the other person, so I can do what I want and what I like, I will use you in any way, just for my pleasure.
But there is a small twist, you will do also anything I tell you to do, because you are shy, innocent, breakable, scared and you will probably cry and you don't want to do anything, but somehow you are also curious and you have this urge, that you want to be pleased to and you want to be my special toy.
Of course I am always boss/controlling.

Think for example, just a quick scenario where I come to your house.
You will let me in because you have no other option you can't resist, you will be wearing what I have told you will be wearing, for example a thin summer dress with some white tights under it.
Shy and scared you let me in, let me hug you, we go to the couch where we will sit while I softly touch and feel you. The I ask where your bed is and willingly you lead me upstairs to your room where I take you in my arms for a hug, I sniff up your smell and let my hand glide over your body, make sure I feel you nicely up, you are scared, shy, worried, maybe cry a bit, but you let it happen.
I push you down on the bed and sit next to you, again I touch you and give you some kisses, my hand touches your leg and slowly slide under your dress, you try to stop me but you have no strength, you let me feel.
I tell you to stand up and take off your dress, there you stand all naked with only your white tights on, I admire your body and I take your hands and pull you closer and make you sit on my lap while again I feel your body, kiss it, I move you over and push you down on the bed, take my clothes off and lie next to you, I tell you to touch me, while I touch you, you start but you don't want to, you beg me to stop. I push you back on your back and start licking and kissing your body, you try to push me away but again you have no strength, I work my way down between your legs and use my tong and fingers on you while you try to resist but you can't, I am seriously horny so I put your legs together and put my cock between your legs against your little pleasure spot and start dry humping you till I cum, I am sweating all over you and when I am done, I tell you to clean yourself and also me, when you are done you will put something new on, different tights or just something else maybe you do a suggestion because somehow you don't want to be with me but you also want to be used like I do and we go one for more fun...

Well, it is just an example, but it gives an idea, maybe I even tie you up with some nylons and use you.

Don't miss understand me, I am not really talking about real violence or so, slapping, beating heavy tying up, etc, it is not really me, but a little slap on the butt for being naughty is possible, still I am open minded and who knows we can explore different levels, I can think of other special scenarios.

About me. I am a 49-year-old Dutch guy, born and raised, so I speak also Dutch, also I am a big guy, so chubby, big tummy and butt, also hairy here and there, some people describe me as a big cuddly teddy bear. I am 1,80m, Caucasian, no religions, in average I am gentle, friendly and respectful guy, so I speak Dutch and English. For hobbies, I like reading, listening to music (metal), cooking, (fake)Lego, computers games and home automation and other stuff, yes, I am an introvert and in average a bit shy and I don't really like crowds.

Very important to know and just being honest, I am in a non-monogamous relationship because of medical reasons (maybe I explain to you) and I have a kid, so you will understand that I am looking for a place to go to. Not really looking for cyber fun, scammers, people on the other side of the world, looking mostly for someone around Amsterdam/Zaanstad.

I have so my kinks/fetishes and I would love to do crazy, but also save, my main interest is pantyhose/tights/nylon, yes, I love them, but I can also have a dirty mind.

What kind of person do I look for, mostly a sweet, cute, nice, respectful feminine person, that wants to listen to me and please and pleasure me, maybe younger and smaller because I would like also the idea of age play and looking for a middle but no hard demand.

Respect, trust and fun are key, safety also.