I’d say my ideal type is a sweet sadist. Someone who will call me pretty and pathetic and praise me, but will delight in making me cry and beg them to stop. Someone who makes sure I know only their pleasure matters, and that they can use me however they want. Someone who speaks softly when I’m good, but flips on a dime when I’m not pleasing enough, or just when they feel like being mean for fun.

I’m looking for a likeminded person to explore my fantasies with. I’m 21, petite, east asian, will share sfw photos after enough conversation. I’m picky and only like to talk to one person at a time, so let me list my preferences.

• 20-29.
• I have a dry, sardonic sense of humor that some find off-putting. To me, there’s no greener flag than someone who knows how to wittily give it back to me without crossing a line, and no redder flag than someone who gets their feelings hurt over light ribbing, or skips straight to angry insults because they can’t handle a single joke at their expense. A match in humor is non-negotiable, because if I meet one more man who’s on the verge of tears after I call him cringe, I’m gonna lose it.
• Good conversationalist. Out of bed, someone funny, intelligent, and insightful. In bed, someone who not only excels at dirty talk, but loves it as much as I do. I’m so sick of having to ask someone to talk more. You should be the type that loves to hear your own voice and telling your partner what to say, make me beg, or thank you or whatever else you can think of. Be creative, just don’t be boring.
• Enjoys the psychological side of bdsm most of all. Getting my mind fucked with is much hotter than just my body. I like little mind games and manipulations used to keep me obedient and pliable.
• Matches a lot of my kinks and limits. Having some kinks that I don’t is fine, but since I’m such a people pleaser in bed, innately having the same likes/dislikes as me is a very good sign.
• Into: bondage, degradation, praise, cnc, fear play, choking, slapping, anal, dacryphilia, stockholm syndrome, and a bunch of others.
• not into: ddlg, ageplay, raceplay, extreme pain, exhibitionism, feet, plus all the normal limits.
• Gives good aftercare.

Please make your opening message normal. It’s fine if it’s horny, just show you read the post and tell me about yourself. An in medias res rape fantasy or roleplay opening will not catch my interest.