I have a fantasy, that involves me matching with you on a dating app. I don't know what you look like, so I don't know it's you. But you know it's me. You know so much about me already. You've been stalking me for weeks. We've been speaking on Reddit. I've sent you photos and I think you're interesting. But little do I know, that you've got darker, more sinister plans. You plan to trap me, keep me your little toy. To do with, play with, and share, as you please.

But first you have to meet me, get me in person. You arrange a date with me, after talking to me. It's easy for you to win me over and make me feel at ease, after all you've spent hours finding out all you could about me. How easy it is for you to manipulate me. You ask me out on a date, and I immediately agree. I'm keen. The date goes well, we have dinner. I'm eating out of the palm of your hand. And yet I have no clue what's in store for me. You're calm and smug, enjoying how clueless and happy I am in this moment. Soon it's time to really trap me and enjoy your prize. But you know it's also incredibly fun to play with your prey, so you'll carry this on for as long as you please.

Finally, when you're ready, you'll trap me. Perhaps you won't even expose yourself as my "friend" from Reddit. You'll just take control of the situation, and know I'll helplessly submit. All the conversations, photos, stalking you've done, you know I have no choice to submit to you. To be your dumb little toy.

I'm open to different scenarios, but ideally I'd like to be filmed or photographed "without my knowledge" whilst nude, or engaged in sex acts with you. I'd like these to be used to then blackmail me. This is something I'd like to discuss with you, to make sure we fulfil both of our desires.

Me : I'm a little chubby, with big DD tits and a big ass. Blonde hair and brown eyes with Irish skin. Pretty smile and an obident and submissive nature, but I still have fight in me.

My biggest kinks are : being helpless, bondage, humiliation & degredation, messy face, body writing, objectification & dehumanisation, rimming, edging & orgasm control and mild exposure, blackmail, CNC . Much more into coercion, manipulation, being tricked or pressured than aggression or violence. But that doesn't mean I don't want to feel overpowered and physically held / restrained.

You: Aged between 27- 40. Looks aren't too much of a factor, although I'd have mild preference for over 6ft men, of dad bod/stocky/rugby player physique. I'm much more into the connection and dynamic I'd share, plus the ability to get on as people. Having a similar sense of humour and outlook on the world would be great. Ideally you'd share the same kinks - I'm looking for more of a Daddy Dom vibe, but someone who also can be cruel and controlling. Someone who likes the psychological play of kink /CNC