Welcome to r/CNC_Connect! Please read the following before posting, commenting, or contacting any of our members:

Rules

Everyone who participates is expected to read and follow our rules. Failure to follow our rules could result in the removal of your content and a ban from our subreddit.

Posting

Our subreddit has a unique posting procedure. When a user posts, our automoderator does an automated check for compliance with our rules. Depending on what it finds, you may be prevented from posting, or you could receive a message advising you to to review your post for compliance with our rules. Once you have resolved any problems, you will need to read and respond to the "Follow the Trail" automoderator comment. After doing so, your post will go live.

To maintain the quality of content on r/CNC_Connect, we ask that all posts follow these guidelines:

• Include your age, gender identity, preferred partner's gender(s), and location in the post title. Our automoderator deletes posts that do not conform with our standardized format.
• Give a detailed description of the scenario(s) you are seeking or open to. Please note that we define CNC as simulated rape and not just rough/kinky sex or BDSM. "Free use" and Total Power Exchange (TPE) situations do not meet our definition of CNC.
• Make your post descriptive and interesting. Our automoderator will remove any post with less than 200 words, and our human moderators will remove posts that lack descriptiveness and detail.
• Don't discuss any CNC scenarios where consent cannot be withdrawn. This includes: Substance play (drugs & alcohol), sleep play (somnophilia or anything involving unconsciousness), and playing without safewords.
• Don't make posts looking for "no limits" scenarios. Everyone needs limits, and "no limits" implies a safeword will not be used.
• Don't attempt to arrange interactions for another person, no matter the relation. This includes posts seeking interactions involving more than one victim, including cuckold/cuckquean interactions and group activities with multiple victims.
• Don't engage in any scenes that involve identifying the victim based on a physical description, location, clothing, etc. The only acceptable ways to identify a victim's identity and ensure consent is via video chat or in-person meetup before the scene. If an attacker targets the wrong person based on inadequate verification, that is a crime.
• Don't make posts looking for online-only partners. This subreddit is for arranging in-person interactions.
• Don't attempt to exchange sex for money, goods, services, gifts, or anything of value. This includes "sugar baby" / "sugar daddy" / "sugar mommy" arrangements. This also includes paying for airfare, vacations, and shopping trips.
• Don't use this subreddit to look for relationships. The sole purpose of this subreddit is finding partners for CNC encounters. If it isn't simulated rape, it doesn't belong here.
• Don't include personal or private information in your posts or comments. You may include photos of yourself but only if your face is hidden. Photos of other individuals are forbidden.
• Don't post more than one time in a 7 day period. This includes deleting posts and re-posting less than 7 days later. If a moderator removes your post because it violates our rules, you will need to wait before posting again.
• Don't make hostile comments. Posters here have not consented to being talked to disrespectfully.
• Don't copy others' posts. Plagiarized posts will be removed.

Risks and Safe Behavior

If you post here, comment here, or message one of our users, you are affirming that you understand the risks and how to keep yourself safe. We expect the following of all users:

• Avoid disclosing personal information beyond what is needed to coordinate a meetup
• Remove personal information from your posting history before posting or commenting here
• Consider using an alternate account when posting or commenting here. We do not have a minimum Karma limit or account age because we want to make it easy to use new alt accounts
• Verify the identity of your partner via video chat or in-person meetup before engaging in CNC play with them
• Share your plans with a third-party "buddy" who knows what you will be doing and what to do if you don't check in afterward
• Inform the moderation team if any user harasses you, violates your boundaries/limits, breeches your confidentiality, or engages in other questionable behavior
• Use the "Report" feature to flag posts and comments that break our rules or violate Reddit's Terms of Service and Community Standards.
• Do not give anyone information that could make you vulnerable or unsafe

Success Posts

r/CNC_Connect allows success posts under certain circumstances. Please abide by the following guidelines for success posts:

• Only describe situations where you met your partner on /r/CNC_Connect
• Do not write success posts that include violations of our rules. If your success post reveals that you broke our rules, you may be banned.
• Include a factual description of the encounter, including how you felt, what went well, and how you ensured safety.
• Success posts should not be ads. Use your success post to describe your successful encounter, not for self-promotion.
• Write the success post from the point-of-view of the author. I.e., Attackers may not post success stories from the victim's perspective and vice versa.
• Do not include identifiable information aside from Reddit usernames.
• Do not write your post in a way that is indistinguishable from a fictional fantasy
• Each success post may only be posted here once.

Please reach out to the moderators if you have any questions.