This isn't a spite post or a post throwing shade, it's a reassurance post.
So many cold feet out there! But I understand. The concept of leaving your safety and well-being in the hands of a stranger is scary. Some of you younger ladies may have never experienced or have very little experience with bdsm in general, and going straight from vanilla to CNC is...a lot! Then you read some of the posts on here, and many of them sound a little unhinged. I like to think that I'm not the only Dom who is sympathetic to this dynamic, but I'm equally confident that there are guys who aren't interested in your safety or comfort as much as their own pleasure. I am incredibly understanding of this dynamic, and as I stated above I don't hold it against anyone who decides that it isn't for them at any point.
With all that said, I am more than happy to cater to what you want and need. I do this for my own pleasure of course, but I find no satisfaction in creating unwanted discomfort, whether it be physical or mental. I want an experience that we both enjoy, and both walk away from happy. If that's just meeting up and having fun, great. If you want to explore the dynamic of a D/s relationship, we can do that. If you just have questions about bdsm or CNC, I'm happy to talk!
So! What I ask from you, prospective princess of mine, is to open our conversation with what it is you're looking for. If you don't, I will assume you're looking for fun because I am too. But I would genuinely hate to turn someone off of what should be an enjoyable experience because of something like lack of communication.
I have plenty of info regarding myself on my profile, and will ask to trade pics at some point before we meet. As always, if you follow me I will reach out. Hope to hear from you soon.
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