To me, you can approach CNC from two different directions: the physical and the psychological. With the physical there is often violence and a display of physical superiority — being thrown around, held down, choked, fucked in an aggressive, pounding manner. This is wonderful in its intensity but if attempted with a stranger can lead to uncertain outcomes. You’d better be both trusting and have a real threshold for fear.
The psychological approach is different. It relies on a level of submission. Submission is not consent, it is the voluntary abandonment of freedom of choice. With it comes the twin effects of humiliation and loss of control. It is about the gradual decent from a fully functioning adult human to a sacrificial victim. It’s a quiet, slow elevator ride down into the darkest bowels of your psyche and, for the most part, it’s your finger on the “down” button.
Imagine a meet up when it’s dark and no words are exchanged. I pass you a slip of paper with an instruction to follow. You choose to do so or not. But at some point you will step out of your safety zone. At some point you will think “this is crazy. This isn’t safe.” But it would be that you are being dragged into an alley by your hair. You will walk there of your own volition because you want to be vulnerable. And when the third or fourth bite you are handed and expected to follow instructs you to swallow a pill, what will you do? Or told to blindfold yourself and enter into a vehicle?
Will the physical become part of the play? Yes. But first you must shed some of the natural defenses you own. You must deny the voices in your head that warn you to be prudent and careful. And you’ll start in this journey with the foolish and risky step of responding to this post.
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