Hello fellow freaks,

Looking for chats and more, depending on the vibe. Ideally, there'd be a level of connection that's worth exploring properly if you're local, but also open to pen pals, sexting, rp, etc.

Kinks include:

CNC - various levels of non-consent are acceptable depending on your tolerance and experience.

Degradation -What's more fun than forcing a cute little toy to admit what a slut she is or making her humiliate herself for my amusement.

Breath Play, Impact, Etc- It's better when it's rough. Nothing wrong with emotional or psych play, but there's a realness to feeling the tension that only comes from a hand around your throat.

Tasks/Commands - Obedience is sexy. Happy to enforce/earn/command that obedience depending on how things play out.

Forced/Denied orgasms. - I enjoy making you wait and beg until you're about to break from desire, and then go until the pleasure is pain. Lovely little cycle, that.

Turn-ons

Being well-read (tried hard not to make a "well-RED" joke) / nerdy / clever/ smart - I've never much enjoyed submission from someone I can't genuinely connect with / admire / respect on some level. If it's just a fling/chat and we only care about getting off, then you can disregard the above request.

Well-established limits or lack of limits - Personally, I don't think anyone here really is "no limits" (prove me wrong?).

Attractiveness - I maintain a reasonably healthy condition/figure and would need the same from a partner.

About me:

Reasonably successful (Recently left a management position at a tech company).

I work out. Grappling, calisthenics, etc... which means I can throw you around and hold you down as long as needed.

Nerdy. I can quote your standard intro philosophers (I like Camus in particular), play a handful of video games, and generally enjoy learning.

In the Greater Virginia area - I travel a bit, so the location is flexible.

Method of contact:

Reddit chats are ideal. Please be prepared to talk about both kink and non-kink subjects and provide some level of photo verification (will reciprocate) so that we can ensure that we're on the same page on various levels of attraction. Use the word "red" if you've read this far.

Happy hunting