Welcome to /r/CNC_Connect, Reddit's largest community for consensual non-consent (AKA Rape Play) hookups.

Please be sure to read our rules before posting, commenting, or responding to any advertisements.

Please upvote good content, downvote bad content, and report anything that breaks our rules, breaks reddit's rules, or seems questionable in any way.

A note about our posting procedure

If you are a new user, the first time you post it will automatically enter our moderation queue. After you follow the /r/AutoModerator prompts, a moderator will review your post and, if it is appropriate for our subreddit, your post will go live. Please note that due to backlogs, it may take more than 24 hours for a moderator to review your post. Do not delete your post and re-submit while waiting for approval, as this puts you at the back of the queue.

If you are an "approved user" your new post will still enter our queue, however you can remove it automatically by following the /r/AutoModerator prompt stating you agree to follow our rules.

Here are a few tips for getting your post approved on the first try:

r/CNC_Connect has one purpose: arranging in-person consensual non-consent meetups. We define CNC as being a simulation or role-play of actual rape, and not just kinky sex with a safeword. Most of the posts we reject are looking for kinky sex that is not simulated rape. Your post needs to make it clear that the scene you are trying to arrange meets this criteria.

Along these lines, posts seeking online-only interaction are not allowed, and posts primarily seeking long-term relationships are not allowed.

Your post should describe exactly what you are looking for. Don't just say "I'm looking for someone with the same kinks as me. Hit me up." Include as much detail as possible about what kind of experience you are seeking and what you have to offer.

Follow our required title format. For consistency, we require all posts to be in the following format:

age [R4R] #location - brief title

This format is enforced by our automoderator, and it won't let you post without every element, including symbols, in the exact order above.

Sleep play (somnophilia) and substance play (drugs and alcohol) are not allowed. Your ability to consent and use a safeword are compromised in these situations, therefore we do not allow mention of them in ads posted here.

90% of the posts rejected are for reasons listed above. Put in the effort and follow the rules and you should not have any trouble getting approved.