I am looking for an aggressor who is willing to engage in a scene with priority and intent geared towards the psychological aspects of CNC and fearplay, rather than the sexual. If your idea of CNC is that it gives you an excuse to satisfy your need for rough sex, I'm not the person you're looking for. That's absolutely valid, but I'm looking to get experience in a way that I'm comfortable and feel safe in (taking into consideration the risks, of course). To be clear, I'm not looking for sex.

I'm sure the majority of people on here understand the psychological satisfaction that comes with this interest. It seeps into everything else like the rainbow sheen of spilled oil in a parking lot during a spring rain, and is infused in the surrounding water more than it exists for itself. I want to dive into it and explore it fully. The emotional masochism of each step, the full range of a rigged chess game played out to its conclusion. If you're the kind to, despite groaning at the cliche of them, still resonate with those overused phrases like "find out what makes you tick" and "twist you around my finger" and all that sort, we might be very compatible.

In terms of scene logistics, I usually get a lot of questions about what CNC that doesn't include explicit sex does include. There's a lot of room for kink and foreplay in what I'm looking for. I am interested in a lot of various types of kink, I am just looking to stop just short of sex. Instead of including kink as a tool to amplify the sex, I am looking to engage in kink as an ends itself. This manifests itself often as including roleplay, bondage, kidnapping, pain and impact play, humiliation, ageplay, petplay, forced or denied orgasms, and a number of other interests as long as they are mutual. If this is not something you're interested in, that's entirely reasonable, I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for with someone else.

I have a lot of ideas about the various ways that this could play out and how to give you ammunition to terrify me, but I prefer to get to know potential partners in a friendship sense first. If you reach out to me please start with regular conversation until we're both comfortable and we can proceed from there.

Have a nice day 🌈✨