My wife and I after years of dancing around the issue of her discovering her bisexuality. and potentially swinging/opening. etc. finally took a break from family last Thurs 8/22 and 8/23 to head to the PDX area from Eastern Oregon to try out at least one night at privata. we decided we'd try Thursdays "thick sexy magic" as that fit our body types a little more.

If you were there 8/22 my wife was wearing the purple babydoll for her lingerie. and we were so nervous we didn't approach or play with anyone, but it was very nice to be around other sexy people. although it was farily slow! That thursday there was virtually noone on the floor. We got there very early, and while it did pick up closer to 10 it felt slow all night.

I'm fairly sure people only played with who they came with, and there was always space to play. it never felt packed . We were so nervous and even afraid to look into people's eyes. We were each others first and only. But there were people we wish we'd had the courage to reach out to. After about midnight we were fairly tired, but since neither of us burst into flames we decided we were DEFINITELY coming back the next night.

Friday night hit and we arrived a little closer to 10PM and it was packed. hard not to bump into the massive busts of everyone around. the theme that night was Fetish and Fantasy. there were shibari demonstrations, and various flogging, but mostly people having sex. since rooms were often full there was lots of oral action on couches.

We didn't end up playing with anyone, (should have been bolder in the asking) but we did have some same room no swap action which was very nice. IT was also great to be in the same room as other couples fucking and watching them while I made out with and touched my wife.

my only wish is that we had tried to connect/schedule with a couple ahead of time.

BUT NOW THAT WE ARE BACK HOME. something has kind of unlocked with my wife. We are fucking nearly every day (drastic increase over our previous frequency) she has joined a few apps and is making connections with girls and couples locally. and we are already have a play date scheduled for our first threesome TOMORROW!

if you haven't been to a lifestyle club, don't walk. RUN! you won't regret it!