I (37M) and my wife (28F) are headed wayyy out of town for break away from obligations and have been wanting to attend Privata to at least get a taste of the lifestyle. (our hometown has nothing) We are arriving after a few hours drive on Thursday Aug 22nd and the Thick Sexy Magic is in theme for our body type, but Would prefer to potentially go Friday as the upstairs is open. (we are driving back Saturday)

The problem is that the theme for Friday is Fetish & Fantasy. and I would not call us a fetish couple (my wife actually doesn't care for the whole complete latex, vinyl , leather look.) We are just horny and want to be surrounded by sexy people. So my question is.

providing we dress appropriate to dress code. Will we likely feel horribly out of place if we are not in theme? (even if we only play with each other) ?

I am aware of other clubs, but based on descriptions and the video content out there. Privata is absolutely top choice. But I don't want it to be dead on Thursday (which I hear is often the case) and if we are hungry for more after Thursday, I want to come back but not be turned off/away because we aren't in theme.