Dating apps are so demoralizing. I talk to someone for about three days, then radio silence. I am a 39 y/o SWM in Charlotte, and I'm looking for someone cool to hang out with. I am a bi guy, but I gravitate towards fem types because y'all are cute. I am 5'8", 150 lb in alright shape with scruffy hair and unable to grow a respectable beard. I have two kids, and to be honest I have really been focusing most of my energy on them for the past five years since my divorce. I'm into alternative music mostly and I never left my grunge phase, so band t-shirts with thermal underneath, tons of hoodies, and chain wallets are generally what I wear. I play PS5 in my free time, and just started the Resident Evil 4 remake, but I like to have projects to occupy my time usually. During the pandemic I tried to figure out how to code video games, but never got too far aside from learning a lot of cool math and programming concepts. I've mostly used this account for horny posting in the past, but have hidden the really spicy ones from view. I used to drink a lot, but not so much anymore in favor of being a tree enthusiast. I like going to the library, and recently just got some cookbooks because I want to learn how to make shakshuka as well as figuring out a good way to use three lbs. of shrimp that I got BOGO at the grocery store. My bad habit is vaping. I have a dog and a leopard gecko, and they both love bugs. I'm a very laid back person. Idk, I think that's pretty much it.