Hi! I'm an experienced solo-poly daddy looking to start a new IRL relationship with a Middle in the Los Angeles area (I'm in the San Fernando Valley myself).

About me: I'm 46, 5'10", 185 lbs... I have a beard, wear glasses, and am balding... I totally fit the Daddy type! I have a house with a digital pinball machine and nearly every video game made before the year 2000 for every computer system, arcade machine, and gaming console. I like museums, flea markets, road trips to Vegas, puzzles, and random British TV shows you may never have even heard of. And I love to cuddle! I'm extremely kink-friendly, but BDSM is not a requirement in my dynamics apart from the general DDlg scope. I call myself solo-poly, I am my own primary and am not looking to be anyone's primary or have anyone become mine. I value my independence and keep my DDlg life separate from the rest of my life. I do have other partners of different degrees, but, these outside relationships would be kept separate, I'm not looking for anyone to join an existing dynamic.

About you: I'm very open to all types of people and parameters! I put "Middle" in my title because 1) I'm not really into the super-little/Baby vibe, I like to play with someone who plays a bit older than that, and 2) Middles tend to be a bit more independent themselves, which matches a bit better with my style. Ideally, the person I'm looking for has their own stuff going on and doesn't need 24/7 attention or is looking for me to provide everything they're missing, but, is rather hoping to find someone looking to fill in that last puzzle piece they're looking for. In the past, I've worked best with other solo-poly middles and littles, or, with people that already have a primary.

So send me a message and let's see what happens! I'm happy to be clear about my limits, hopefully you are too... honest and open negotiation is important to me! Let me know what you read that you liked and we'll go from there :)