It's NOT really an issue but it's been bothering me a bit lately. For some info my personality is very introverted and i like being alone very much. I'm quite and mostly avoid people but sometimes I do crave attention or want to talk to somebody from time to time..

Now..

my cat is exactly like that, I have read that cats copy their owners personality? Idk how true is that but everytime I want attention from my female cat hermione she flat out runs away from me or ignores me 💀 but when she wants it I flat out ignore her or don't want to be bothered so you could see the issue here.. don't get me wrong I love her more than anything and spend all my money on her alot spoiling her!! BUT SHE ALWAYS COMES TO ME WHEN I DONT WANT TO BOTHERED and jt creates an odd relationship?? and at night time she never wants to lay on my stomach for pets anymore or take alittle nap..only thing she does is somehow lay near me, like under my bed or right beside my bed but never on my bed. Does she Hate me? I'm confused, like she goes on my little sister's bed and one or two times slept on it but never mine..

What do I need to do to change this behavior in some way?