I'm a 46-year-old married Latino male in a dead bedroom. Standing tall at 5'11", HWP, DDF with a nicely trimmed beard hiding sexy dimples, piercing dark brown eyes, and a full head of black hair to grab on to when... (insert naughty action here). A college-educated, gainfully employed family man. I embody discretion, just like you. There are no plans to change my family status, and neither should you, but there is every intention to add some spice to life - there lies the invitation. I’m seeking a like-minded soul in a similar situation to break free from the chains of apathy and routine and rediscover the thrill of being alive.

Let's acknowledge the desires we've buried beneath our mom and dad responsibilities, the craziness of our busy lives, the fantasies we've locked away, and the experiences we crave. Let's be each other's forbidden fruit and naughty secret, reminding you of your allure and sensuality beyond the roles of wife and mother. Let's enjoy the butterflies of sneaking away to another room to send those seductive morning messages; let's enjoy the thrill of getting naughty texts or calls as the world fades away.

Then, when you're in my town for a conference, training, meeting, visiting family, or a layover, let's find a time to hide away and steal moments to explore our bodies and cravings in person, like rebellious lovers seeking thrills. And yes, we should expect nothing less than teenage behavior, looking for opportunities to get lost in each other's lips.

In the bedroom, I lean dominant but worship my lover with tenderness, putting your desires above my own. My greatest pleasure comes from giving, and I have a bit of oral fetish and love providing sensual massages. From the mild to the wild, I revel in the dance of sensory exploration, teasing with light bondage, perhaps the thrill of a well-placed hand upon your body asserting guidance and control, and gentle whispers full of praise that spark arousal to your core. If these ideas of ecstasy stir your soul, perhaps we should venture into the realm of exploring kinks together, exploring uncharted territories of our imagination, those desires we never thought we could even communicate with others.

Make the best out of your next trip to Chicago, and let's take this conversation to our DMs.