I am 30 old male and for 7-8 years I dated on and off with most of my dates from OLD only lasting a few dates. It would be they wouldn't feel a connection or I would try to hard. Recently I meet this girl (30 female) and we connected on the first day. We both wanted something serious, but it all happened naturally. Funny thing was I tried to kiss on her on the first date and she rejected but still wanted to talk. I normally would try harder but I slowed things down and let things happen and after the third date we kissed. She texted me later that night saying she felt things are going well and can't wait for the next date. We have been dating for 2 months and are in a relationship now. We spend the weekends together and talk about the future together. We want to keep dating but feel like we could maybe get married together.

I have been rejected alot and felt hopeless at times thinking I would never find the one. So if you are feeling lost or hopeless don't. Just keep being yourself when you go on dates because being yourself is all that matters. That is what helped me to get with my girlfriend. Good luck out there everyone. Always here if anyone needs anything!