Hey Guys I wanted to ask you something. I've been useing dating apps since this year alot. I wanted to set myself a "goal" to get into a relationship this year. I know it's not a thing which you can force alot, but you can help it. So I went on like 5 to 6 dates this year. With most of them, it was just a one time date so we went on a cute date and then we never saw us again. Most of the time, it was because the other person hasn't had time, wasn't feeling good (mental) or it just didn't matched. The thing is I usaly spent alot of time texting with the other person, to know we have some similar interessts. And I allways thought it would match good since I texted alot with the other person and knew we had similar interessts. My expectation isn't that high, like I care more about how a person is, what kind of interessts they have and if they match with me. Their look isn't that importent to me, I mean there are some things which I'm attracted to, but they are not that importent if the other things match.

A thing which I really don't like but I noticed while I was trying to date is, that I matched with alot of persons but I always tried to have my focus on one person because I don't like to date multiple Girls at one time. But I noticed I should do that until I saw her for the first time and after that I can tell the others that I can't date them.

The other thing is, I even spent effort into my profil so there was nearly no option because of the profile it self to swipe left. Alot of persons told me my profil is really good, so I feel like that's not the problem.

So what do you think, is there anything I could do do get closer to dating someone for a longer time?

Maybe it's usefull to say, that I live in Siwtzweland and it's usally kinda hard to make new social contacts.

Thanks for the help!