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I (m44) have matched with a number of women with only head shots, or they are hiding behind their dog, or seriously working the angles to hide how overweight they are. Or worse yet they say they have a pic and say they have “gained some weight due to stress/covid/surgery/…”.
I feel like kind of a jerk asking for a full body pic, but I’m also sick of wasting my time meeting up with people that I don’t find attractive in person.
I’m not looking for a size zero, but I’m also not looking for a size 16. I have clear photos on my profile (5’7”, 165 lbs, athletic build) and simply want the same transparency back.
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You are definitely right when I see a man put in their profile that they like Slim or athletic style bodies, I swipe left. In all of my profiles I put that I am plus size and thicc. Along with having a picture, showing my body the whole way.
To further make sure that they read the profile before we get into deep with anything. I ask them if they have read my profile stating that I am 5 foot 9, plus size and thicc. 99% of them tell me that they have read it and that they prefer thicker women.