There seems to be a lot of noise on other subs from those who have yet to actually play with a bull, so I'm hoping to find out from those who have taken the plunge, or the bulls that have played with them.

So I've recently had a very candid talk with my wife in which I laid out how hot it would be to watch her play with another guy. I'm tending more towards the stag/vixen dynamic if that makes any difference.

Key points from recent discussions: - not fishing to be allowed to sleep with another woman - it turns me on to think of her playing with another man, and that I'm wanting to explore the possibility of it actually happening - encouraged her to open up about a fling while travelling just before we met (eye opening and led to very hot sex) - said how I just get a huge kick out of exploring the depths of her sexuality, and part of this is to see her getting fucked hard by a guy who drives her wild - potential for her to book in for a sensual massage in our own hotel room and see where it goes with a hot guy

So far she has responded very positively to it all - during blindfolded fantasy play, I have never seen her wetter as she sucked me pretending that I was another guy. She begged her fantasy lover (me) to enter her and fill her with cum, and she came harder, faster, wetter, and moaned more than I've ever seen while imagining another man.

We then hit a snag, with her getting a minor medical issue that put her out of action for a few weeks (all now sorted), and then a long heavy period which is only just easing off now.

It looks like from this weekend we should be good to continue playing and exploring again, but things have come off the boil.

I'm a bit unsure how to get things moving again, and am wondering - what steps have couples made that you have been with that have actually made the conversion over into hotwifing / cuckolding?

What good options do I have to move things along from here?