Question for other bulls. Do you prefer a regular hotwife/cuck/bull relationship or the occasionally one-night-stand or infrequent encounter?

Background. I focused my efforts on being the bull-boyfriend to the hotwives I service. My engagement is more of a “dating” and “romantic partner” for the couple. It is not my intention to usurp or replace anyone in the relationship. I do my part to humiliate the cuck and pleasure the hotwife in the most respectful way.

I don’t think it is precisely a poly relationship, but I prefer a stable ongoing relationship. My reasoning is that I can cater more to the couple and their desires and needs, plus it is safer sexually. Also, it is good to me able to have out of the bedroom conversation and interaction. Thoughts? Am I approaching this situation with the wrong mindset? In my area, it seems difficult to find. Are others having similar issues, finding this situation?