My first post here dragged in a stag who I believe is a true gentleman, I'll call him S. S and wife, P, are just getting into the lifestyle and he was upfront telling me he didn't know what he wanted yet, just that he couldn't bear the humiliation part but he'd love to watch me bed his wife. Still he identified as a cuck. And I promised honesty, respect, and discreet. Our first interactions went so great that we shared pictures, the PG versions of ourselves. Though P was sleeping, I agreed to seeing P only if she consent to it.

I'm the type of bull that only gets satisfied when the wife is enjoying the act and getting her desires filled, her response and reactions during sex have huge influence on my satisfaction. Basically, I get off of the wife pleasure. So I wanted to talk to P to know her boundaries and what she wanted from the lifestyle before we start playing.

S had already told me he asked for years before P finally agreed to it and she wanted to see if the lifestyle is for her. So for someone new, I thought it'd be a good idea to talk to P alone and ease her into things before having the first 3-way session. The husband gave me a go ahead and gave P access to his kik account to talk to me. He also said she would be shy.

So, the plan was to spend an hour chatting with her because I thought it'd be a hard work opening her up. I opened her up pretty quickly though, and we found our flow, so we talked for 3 hours. The chat went intimate and she was relax enough to let go of her inhibitions, we even shared some pictures; I was also able to negotiate around some of her hard boundaries with S. This was after I promised that sharing this detail of our chat with S would be hers and at her chosen time. She also told me about their family planning, she feared I might impregnate her. Though it'd be at my discretion to use condom, but I quickly doused that fear.

She further shared her fantasy and said she'd like to share that with me, here I indulged her and pushed it further hinting at making S foot the bills to make it happen. This wouldn't be a finance or power issue actually, just the relationship dynamic. From here she started comparing me with S, I did indulge her a little but eventually stopped her.

She mentioned she was horny towards the end of our chat and I advised she channel that passion towards her husband when he comes back, he took the children out to give her the mental space to chat with me. She already decided she wanted to see me the next weekend, alone so she would let loose with me, so she wanted me to iron it out with S. We talked some more and we said our goodbyes and how both of us were looking forward to the next day's session.

I messaged to tell P I'd like to talk to S first before the next day's session, this would have been to share some insights and talk more about his boundaries and align our interests before we all come together. We would have also worked on P's request and iron out how things would work going forward but she'd already logged off.

That was our last chat, it's been a week now. I think I did something wrong and I hope I've not scared them away from the lifestyle. Also, I'd like to know if I could have done a thing or two better, I'm a big boy so I'll take your criticism well as long as it's genuine.