I apologize up front for this being too long. It's how I do it. I also realize my idea of a perfect cuck/stag/hotwife/bull situation is unobtainable and probably borderline impossible. But here goes... My ideal dynamic would be a laid back bull that would be fine with me being around and taking her to his place, dates etc. I can't really identify as a cuck, I'm not into being humiliated. I would say I'm closer to a stag, although that doesn't really fit, either. I don't mind being reminded who she belongs to when the 3 of us would be together. Being married to her, I get all the day to day life and the stresses and concerns, the morning breath, the bed head. The bull gets her on dates, gets her dressed to the 9's. Gets her in the lingerie we pick out. He gets the sexy dresses, the stockings, the high heels. The public stuff i don't have the nerves to give her: dressing room sex, sex in public, head on the freeway. Hell, he could have exclusivity to bareback sex and her mouth if it was fun for everyone. Anyway, a bull that shared interested so public outings could go different than the norm. Camping leaves me the 3rd wheel while they make the camper or tent rock all night. I guess all that boils down to the original question. Are there laid back bulls that like to have a fun experience rather than one that is based on bullying and humiliation? Not that there's anything wrong with that if it's your thing, but everyone isn different. Thoughts?