I’ve spoken to a lot of guys about my gf, and she’s talked to a few guys too, but very rarely do we find a guy who’s chill and just wants to let me share my gf with him in a respectful way. Often guys will want to talk down to me which I’m not into. What we like about our dynamic is less about me being humiliated but more that I’m the dominant one letting other guys have a go with my girl and that I’m being kind enough to let her try other men. They can be aggressive with her and dominant with her, frankly they can do what they want, but I don’t want to be seen as inferior, but a lot of guys aren’t really into that angle.

Are there any out there?