I’ve always felt more comfortable in that role as a submissive and while I’ve had my occasional moments I’ve accepted I can’t satisfy my wife like our bulls have in the past and present. Is it abnormal to be finding myself requesting things like our bull (albeit he is a little older than us) to leash me and take me for walks on all fours. It is one of the things I look forward to spending some quality 1-on-1 time with our bull. It is typically only once or twice a week depending on his schedule and he seems to be fine playing along. But recently my wife and I have been toying with the idea of Scott (the one bull we had been experimenting with) taking me for a walk with nothing on but my collar and leash. Or quite possibly just a very skimpy thong. I guess I’m just wondering if that is taking it too far in terms of establishing our roles. Or why do I have such a hard time communicating my wants and needs with bulls? Especially since Scott is a bigger just in overall stature and not the type of guy that’s super in touch with his feelings. We are sort of in the process of transitioning bulls regardless but any advice would be really appreciated, especially first hand from other older more experienced bulls