Had plans to meet my 2nd couple ever tonight after a couple I had been consistent with decided to get exclusive and closed things off with me amicably before the holidays.

I have a pretty thorough procedure to try and avoid flakes/illegitimate people when meeting them on internet places like Reddit, etc. I open extremely casual and comforting when I can, giving them the basic info and trying to make sense of what it is they’re looking for. I avoid being overly sexual because in my experience, 90% of couples the guy is the one screening potential bulls so he can keep them both safe as they play, and I notice that if I’m too sexual upfront most guys just get off and delete their profile/block me and it’s a one and done deal.

Fast forward to 4 days ago and I find this local couple (hot asf) and they’re so chill. Chat with the guy a bit, verify on Snap, 2 days later he puts me in a Snap group with his girl so I can chat with them both. Everything has been great, hardly anything sexual. We chat all next day, make plans to meet up tonight for drinks, and just an hour ago he loses it? His girlfriend was lightly flirting with me all of today at his request, and I had complied and chatted back respectfully, making sure to include them both. He freaks out, says I’m never going to see her, has her block me, removes me from the group chat, and is now saying he’s got my IP address and he knows who I am and is going to expose me for being a home wrecker.

I think he’s BSing on the IP address but I’ll admit I’m a little shaken up at just how quickly things turned for the worst. I was getting along with them both completely fine until maybe 3 hours ago when communication decreased a bit. Has anyone else had last minute resistance like this? Flaking is one thing but this is like a deep sense of hurt for no reason, I’m not sure ever to do.