So let me preface this with the facts: we’ve been married 25 years, we met in college, we’re experienced in Hotwife & Swing dynamics, we don’t let it dominate our lives, play when there’s time & a desire, & 1 of our big rules is ultimate discretion.

Nobody in our vanilla circle (work, friends, acquaintances) have any idea we’re a LS couple. To that point we’ve never played with anybody close to our vanilla circle.

The wifey has been in current job for the last 5 years. She’s a rockstar essentially running the company & works hand in hand with the CEO. He’s a sharp dude, professional, intelligent, successful, confident, great personality, & attractive. Totally her type of guy. Their work relationship is one that they work together all day, always communicate via text and phone, & of course email. They even travel together often for business. I always tease her that she has a “thing” for him. It’s obvious. It’s an attraction & desire that if happened in a different context, meaning not her boss, she would go for it. With my blessing. The boss is married and lives within a ENM marriage dynamic. But the wife has never ever let him know our lifestyle.

Again, she’s obviously super attracted to him. I can tell on so many ways. Her face lights up when he texts, they talk on the phone often after hours. He’s made some advances over the years. But she’s always laughed them off innocently and played along. She liked the flirting, even playing into the flirting a bit. He would be an amazing bull, I’m convinced.

So they have a work trip to Vegas in a few weeks. I’ve been teasing her that she has the green light if something was to develop. We both however are fearful that he is in our circle which contradicts one of our rules. I’m convinced it would be an amazing experience due to the desire and heavy attraction. Usually leads to hot amazing sex.

What to do, What to do….