Ok, short disclaimer, you can be whatever works for you and your partners and our experience isn't true for every cuck couple in the world. However, we lately ran into lots of frustration with potential bulls. This is a rant based on our personal experiences.

We talk online with bulls and once they learn about us being a cuckold couple, they quickly move to bragging about their dick size, how dominant they are, how long they can last, how much better they are than I (her boyfriend). Look, yes, it turns me on. I get off on the humiliation. My GF however gets disgusted and annoyed.

What's important for her is whether you are safe to be around? Are you sane? Are you pleasant? If your second message is about roughly fucking her from behind, it doesn't sound safe, sane or pleasant. She hates graphic sex talk with people she hadn't had sex with. Flirting is fine, but overdoing it kills the mood. If a guy uses the word alpha unironically, the conversation is over.

I'm sure there are people that enjoy that kind of build up, my GF doesn't and it is frankly frustrating to run into guys that might be decent, but as soon as they here the word cuckolding, they set up a performance that mainly serves the fantasy of the cuck. If my GF gets annoyed, I won't get cucked, so please, don't let porn ruin how most real human interactions look like. My rant is over.