We’re a mid-40s cuck couple in a stable, loving marriage. So far our experiences have been through one-offs or private parties and we’re well verified on the UKs largest swinging website.

We’ve recently connected with a local VVWE bull… he’s just 4 miles away. He’s also well verified (same website: Fabswingers) and has some fairly impressive accounts of his capabilities. We’re meeting with him for the first time IRL next week.

Unlike previous guys his interest is conditional on regular (weekly) meets, over the long-term, and with full ownership of us both. This has been a shared goal for my wife and I since we entered the lifestyle, but we are both inexperienced with this kind of ongoing dynamic and naturally, now it seems like a real possibility we (ok, I) am beginning to wonder what we’re letting ourselves in for.

I want my wife to be happy and satisfied, but he has opened with some strong conditions… I should say he’s very experienced in the lifestyle, with 15 years of encounters behind him.

What can we expect?