I've been a cuckold a few times in a few different relationships. Each time that it happened, physical pleasure in session were almost exclusively between my girl and the bull. For this reason, cuckolding is very cerebral for me as the cuckold. The emotions I experience before, during, and after a session are super intense. Even though they can be difficult to handle in the moment, they still drive me to want it again and again.

Allowing another man to do something so emotionally and physically significant with the woman I love is not something that the typical male brain is pre-wired to do. I know that it's not natural to accept such an extreme violation of my relationship and wedding vows. It's not natural to sit by and do nothing while the love of my life has intimate passionate sex with another man.

All of this goes against my instincts. Even after years experiencing it, my first instinct is still the urge to interrupt it and stop it and defend her from the desires of other men. what sort of man allows this top happen in front of him without stopping it?

Over the years I've learned to control these feelings of jealousy, anguish, and humiliation. Not only control them but also desire them. I welcome them as a show of my submission to my wife and her lover's desires. I feel that the stronger the emotion, the more it shows my submission.

Some of the best experiences have been with men who recognize this emotional aspect in my mind and take advantage of it. They not only play up everything happening with my wife, but also have teased me directly and verbally. Asking me if I like what I'm seeing or otherwise forcing me to acknowledge my acceptance of what's happening.

I crave some level of interaction with the bull, but I also know that some cuckolds can become too needy and too distracting for the bull and detract from the overall experience for both the bull and the wife.

So I ask the bulls of reddit, knowing that many of us cucks desire this "extra" interaction. What makes for the best interactions with the cuckold without making the experience less for you?