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What should I do? I feel terrible
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I had an awesome experience with a couple for about a year. At the end of it things turned rocky in the weirdest way. My ex stalked my TikTok followers & found the wife I was playing withā€¦the told the wife about me

Turns out she used several women to DM her about me. They couldā€™ve been make believe as well cause the wife wouldnā€™t tell me who they were. I told the wife of the couple the truth & stated that I havenā€™t spoken to that ex in a very long time or seen herā€¦had no idea she was saying horrible things about me.

On top of that what she told the wife was that I had herpes. Which is a lie. I have the wife my most recent results & it states that Iā€™m all clean & even told her that I will send her another one soon to validate that information even more.

Well the wife didnā€™t believe me to a point. I told her that it wouldnā€™t definitely showed up on her husbandā€™s tests that he had it since heā€™s a liver transplant patient & just be patient until all the facts update.

Well I asked her if she would show me her std panel too since Iā€™m not the only one having sex in the dynamic. She turned it around on me saying ā€œitā€™s obvious that you think I get around like thatā€. Meanwhile, I didnā€™t say thatā€¦I just wanted to get to the bottom of this dramaā€¦so if we are both cleanā€¦it was obviously a lie

Well I said some hurtful stuff through text & immediately apologized after calming down & calling her. I told her that it didnā€™t come from the heart & that Iā€™m very sorry. I was so crushed about it that I deleted my swinger profile. I was just upset at how my name was being dragged through the mud & I couldnā€™t defend myself in a way from the other end cause she wouldnā€™t tell me whose saying all those things about me.

Well the husband reached out saying that all this is done & ā€œitā€™s not on them, itā€™s on meā€. I told him that I was very sorry too & I was just trying to get to the bottom of it all cause health is a very serious subject to discuss.

Question: Should I reach out anymore after my updated test comes back to confirm again that I was telling the truth about it all? Or should I just leave it alone? I feel so bad how it was all handledā€¦I have had trouble sleeping.

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