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I had an awesome experience with a couple for about a year. At the end of it things turned rocky in the weirdest way. My ex stalked my TikTok followers & found the wife I was playing withā¦the told the wife about me
Turns out she used several women to DM her about me. They couldāve been make believe as well cause the wife wouldnāt tell me who they were. I told the wife of the couple the truth & stated that I havenāt spoken to that ex in a very long time or seen herā¦had no idea she was saying horrible things about me.
On top of that what she told the wife was that I had herpes. Which is a lie. I have the wife my most recent results & it states that Iām all clean & even told her that I will send her another one soon to validate that information even more.
Well the wife didnāt believe me to a point. I told her that it wouldnāt definitely showed up on her husbandās tests that he had it since heās a liver transplant patient & just be patient until all the facts update.
Well I asked her if she would show me her std panel too since Iām not the only one having sex in the dynamic. She turned it around on me saying āitās obvious that you think I get around like thatā. Meanwhile, I didnāt say thatā¦I just wanted to get to the bottom of this dramaā¦so if we are both cleanā¦it was obviously a lie
Well I said some hurtful stuff through text & immediately apologized after calming down & calling her. I told her that it didnāt come from the heart & that Iām very sorry. I was so crushed about it that I deleted my swinger profile. I was just upset at how my name was being dragged through the mud & I couldnāt defend myself in a way from the other end cause she wouldnāt tell me whose saying all those things about me.
Well the husband reached out saying that all this is done & āitās not on them, itās on meā. I told him that I was very sorry too & I was just trying to get to the bottom of it all cause health is a very serious subject to discuss.
Question: Should I reach out anymore after my updated test comes back to confirm again that I was telling the truth about it all? Or should I just leave it alone? I feel so bad how it was all handledā¦I have had trouble sleeping.
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