I played with a couple a little under a year ago now, and it went wellish. It was a very impromptu and NSA session which isn't really my thing. In my last 7 years of being a bull I've primarily played with couples in more intimate and protracted capacities. Anyway, I played with that couple and while they definitely enjoyed themselves the night of I came to learn later (I traveled fairly extensively for a few months so no contact) that playing with me basically killed their relationship. I was told they stopped having sex to some degree after playing with me (at least penetratively I'd imagine), and they separated at some point within the next 4-5 months.

The boyfriend/cuck shared with me after the fact (he stayed in contact because he's definitely bi and attracted to me) that them separating was largely due to how much playing with me shifted their sexual dynamic. This has quite literally never happened to me, and I thought I'd get over it, but the part I played still bothers me to some degree, and while I've talked about this with some of my kink participating friends none of them really get this kink in and of itself. So I thought I'd post here and maybe hear some other perspectives. Ideally the catharsis of just putting it out will help some on its own haha