Bit of context for those that didn't see my previous post. My wife has been with her Bull for a while now, emails and texts at first but sexually since October. It's a bit complicated, I have a previous history with the guy because my ex-fiancee cheated on me with him - and eventually left me for him - over ten years ago and he obviously thinks I hate him but it really turns me on to think of him with my wife (but he doesn't know I know).

In April he engineered a way of 'bumping' into me at work while my wife was there, basically for his own fun, but neither of us have heard much from him since as he plays a lot of cricket in the summer. But suddenly he has emailed me twice in a week, wanting to talk about the past and future and dropped some very large hints that he would be interested in my wife if the chance arose and there would be nothing I could do about it.

I can't attach photos on here but I have screenshot his mails if anyone wants to DM me to have a proper chat about him but also happy to discuss here if people just want to make general points.

What do you think his motive is? His latest mail was half reminiscing about the past and telling me it could happen again and half telling me what a good guy I was and I was lucky to have my wife. It was a bit unnerving.