I wanted to address something I have seen and have had people approach me about.

I have had a number of prospective bulls asking how to become a bull.

The first issue I run into: If you are not having success with women, this is not an easy fix to get laid. IMHO being a bull only works for men that are comfortable, confident and at ease around women. If you have no game, and no experience with women... You aren't going to be very successful as a bull. The couple is bringing you in because you are a concert pianist, and their daily partner plays the piano for fun. If this is the issue, I would suggest you work on you, and learn how to be better with women in general.

2ndly, don't lie about what you offer. If you have a 5" cock, or you are overweight, don't list yourself as having an 8" cock and being "shredded" or "athletic." As soon as they see the pic, they are going to see your upselling and not be interested. There isn't much you can do about your cock size, but you can work on that body. Reality is this, a bull is typically brought in because you are offering more than the standard partner. If he has a 4" penis, you need to be bigger. If he is in decent shape, typically you need to be bigger, more cut etc. You are a special item to enhance the experience. If you offer the same as the current partner, sure you can bring some mental game (and that is a key part of being a Bull) but you aren't going to be as successful.