Our bull is more than twice the age of my girlfriend and I (19, 20) at 52, and he hadn't been with a couple with such a large age gap involved before. From day one it has been an amazing experience, if scary sometimes and emotionally painful (in a good way mostly). Definitely has been a test of our relationship, which has luckily stayed strong through some hard times for me a few years ago. She's ridiculously supportive in every way so it feels like I am rewarding her in a way too.

It feels natural for me as a younger boyfriend, to feel submissive around a much older man. He definitely plays into it and is dominant but can also be gentle and like a guide to me and my girl.

Is this kind of dynamic common or no? Are there older bulls here who have been with very young couples? Did it turn out well, or are we an exception? What are the largest age gaps you've had? Have you bulls ever done firsts for some couples? If me and my girl had been ready and met our bull a year ago we for sure would've wanted him be the first guy to have her bare. We have done some other firsts with him instead.

On the flipside, are there bulls our age that have been with much older couples? I feel like that is probably more common, maybe?