Cuck couple here,

1. How to deal w/psychos and stalkers?
2. How do we protect ourselves?
3. Red flags?

We both do our respective hunting for playmates - she's on various apps and I'm on a few places like reddit that are a bit more work to deal with. Posts here on Reddit usually get a lot of replies, most of the time wasters, but being a guy I'm quite aware of the tricks guys play, and the techniques folks use - so I'd like to think I'm pretty good at stopping liars and crazies from far away.

However we had our first scare yesterday w/someone who's went to pretty extreme lengths to keep talking to me, pressuring me for my wife's info, even though we've said we aren't interested. He ended up creating multiple accounts, pretending to be someone else, eventually getting frustrated and essentially calling me a "fag" forcing me to block him. Thinking about nuking this account just to be safe. :edit: He's created MORE accounts. He's up to at least 4 now.

So, we both have prominent careers, and can't be too "out there". We have reasonable expectations and give some trust to folks when we chat w/them. We'll share photos and show enough of ourselves to know we're legit, we have extensive post history and you can tell we're real and the same folks in all our photos. If you're cool, and my wife likes your photos and is feeling the chats, I'll share her personal info and they can chat. Apparently expecting this from others is too much?

We do all the common sense things. No real names. No personal info. Burner accounts. What else can we do?

What are some non-negotiables you have?

What red flags immediately disqualify someone?

Advice appreciated.