I am wondering how common it is for the more dominant bulls to intentionally work on forming an emotional attachment with wives purely as a way to lock in a longer-term sexual commitment from them?

Many women, but not all, desire some level of emotional connection to a man who they are having sex with. Some need it in order to have sex at all, others tend to form an attachment during or after sex.

But have you ever gone out of your way to try to enhance the romance, factor and emotional connection and bond between you and a wife? Knowing that it pulls you both together more closely and increases the chances that you will be seeing her frequently for a very long time.

Not that you are trying to get the wife to divorce her husband and marry you, but that you are trying to form a deep enough connection to make sure she is yours for as long as you would like.

One of my deepest fantasies is to see my wife form such a relationship with another man. I know this comes with huge risk, but I would love to see her start to change and reflect the fact that she has a new love in her life and gives him some of the non sexual attention that used to be reserved for me.

I would absolutely want to continue to keep my connection with my wife strong as ever. But I crave seeing that certain look in her eye given to another man. To see them together, touching each other and calling each other pet names. That she would glance at me as he kisses her almost with a look of pity for me because she knows that her boyfriend makes her heart melt and her knees weak, and she can’t hide it from me.

I would be unable to hear what he is whispering into her ear as he makes love to my wife. Hearing her moan his name as she comes with him inside of her, knowing the hormones that are being released in her body are only serving to deepen the feelings that she feels for him each time.

Learning too late that he was very methodical with the steps that he took, the gifts that he gave her, the things he would tell her, all to ensure that her body would belong to him for a long time to come. He would send her a little messages during the day to make sure that she felt special. Slowly, occupying a greater share of her mental energy and emotions.

Being unable to argue when he told me very matter-of-factly, that he will be taking my wife out to dinner on our wedding anniversary. Seeing the surrender in her eyes, letting me know that I can’t stop this from happening. That she is his as long as he wants. I’m just holding on to my marriage for dear life.

I would feel like I should stop this 1 million times. But instead I would be who I am. A cuckold. I would offer to make the dinner reservations for my wife and her lover on their new special night.