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How to come to terms with not being responsible for my loved ones' peace & happiness?
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So for context I've recently started taking my practise seriously and while I'm obviously far from being enlightened, my quality of life has improved tremendously. My negative thoughts have become much more manageable and I'm generally more at peace and optimistic about life. Given this progress however, it does pain me a bit when I see loved ones for example that aren't on the same path and potentially never will be. Obviously I can't (and wouldn't want to) force them to do anything, but I can't help but think how much of their stresses and worries would also be alleviated if they meditated/practised mindfulness etc. Now I can make a gentle suggestion that they should try some of these practises but naturally not everyone will give it a chance.

So I suppose I'm wondering if anyone has any advice on how to deal with this phenomenon. How can I come to terms with the fact that while I can always be kind and benevolent, other people's peace/happiness is ultimately not my responsibility and if they want to go down this path, then that's their decision. How can I get rid of this burden that I have placed upon myself? In general I tend to be empathetic to a fault, always worrying too much for others even though they can take care of themselves. I hope my query makes sense - thanks in advance :)

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