One of your amazing mods here and I really want to help you out, because let's be real, most of you are shithouse at posting a decent r4r. This advice applies to everyone, but men, I'm looking at you.

1. R4R MUST be included
2. Tell the reader about yourself. Just because you're a dude who wants a woman doesn't mean you'll get attention, we need a little more detail than that. Age, what you're into, where you're based, what you're looking for, what you look like (be HONEST here, you're not all 6'2 SBW lookalikes).
3. Standout. Humour works. Pics work. Be clever. Women have choice, give them a reason to reply to you.
4. Add a pic if you can. If you're uncomfortable adding one of you, maybe a cartoon or meme. Just make your r4r the title with other details in the description.
5. Be polite. No-one likes rude or crass. We have a no dickhead policy and it will be enforced.
6. When it comes to the messaging part, BE POLITE. Take a minute to get to know the other person before telling them what your humongous appendage is going to do to them.
7. No personal info or contact details. Descriptions and suburbs ok.
8. If you're really stuck, DM the mod team, we're lovely, and we'll offer our advice, but try these first.

Happy playing deviates xx