Okay,General Question for the audience here - considering that a CNN Health Report from 2018 states:

Today, however, cuckolding has become fetishized into a powerful sexual fantasy for some men, who get aroused by the idea of their romantic partner engaging in sexual activity with someone else. Women also share this fantasy, but less so than men.

Why do so many BULLS still make contact along the lines of:

"Hey I want to fuck your slut wife, while you watch pathetically in the corner and see how a real man fucks...?"

or

"See you after a real man, you're a member of r/Brisbane_Cuckold, ..."

Now we know some people are old fashioned, but life has changed, times have changed etc. We don't know about other cuckold relationships but in ours the 'slut wife' is HIS slut wife, and people coming in whether Bull, Unicorn or just simple playmates are primarily coming in for HIS enjoyment.

Is it so hard to be... Respectful? Cause we can guarantee, it doesn't matter how highly those Bulls rate themselves if you message US and we feel it is disrespectful you aren't getting a response.

So the question for the audience (after the long ramble/vent) is... why do Bulls feel/think this is the way to approach? and are any other couples in a cuckold relationship like us where the first hint of disrespect and they get ignored/blocked?