I am so confused on this situation.

Thank you to everyone who actually reads this.

I was chatting to this couple that made a post in this subreddit. Looking for a third M of course I would love to right. Everything was going well chatting. Moved to Snapchat seemed genuine real, nothing suspicious. I was at work at the time. I said I can meet afterwards. They agreed and asked if we could meet at a cafe first to see if we click before anything happens which of course was happy to do because obviously you need to know if you would click first. They agreed to the time, set it all up. I left from work and drove to this cafe, hadn’t heard from them yet I got there about 10min early, still heard nothing by the arranged time. Waited for about 30min after and still hadn’t heard anything. So I messaged them that I was leaving and wasn’t happy to be stood up.

About an hour later than the arranged time, I look at Snapchat and the chat is gone ie. removed me as a friend which deletes our chat. Now am I missing something on what people have to gain from doing this, it just made no sense too me.

Like I’m just looking for people/couples that are just wanting to meetup/chat see where we go and then have some mutual fun.

Is there anyone out there haha. Let me know also if there’s something I’m missing or something I did wrong.