I am open to anyone, anywhere, as long as you and I have the same goals and the distance between us would be closed quickly. Please take the time to read the ENTIRE post, all of it is important.

I grew up in a very traditional home. Both of my parents are still married, deeply in love with each other, and instilled principles in me from a very young age that have helped shaped me into the man I am today. Kind and patient, warm and funny, empathetic and introspective, feeling happiest being a dominant yet paternal type of man.

My entire life I have taken care of the people that I love, ultimately knowing my life’s journey will lead to having a family of my own that every ounce of money and drop of emotion will be happily poured into. Every decision that I make, and thought I have, is shaped around who I want to be as a husband and father.

Family is the bedrock of society and my family means everything to me, and if you feel the same way then we are off to a good start! At this point in my life I am not interested in any relationship that is not ultimately headed towards marriage and starting a family, and soon. If you are not ready to get married and start a family within the next year or two max, and are not actively pursuing that in who you talk to and how you think about your future, we will not be a good match. Ideally I would like to go from dating to engaged within 2025 and get pregnant very soon after.

My whole life this is all I have wanted but finding someone to have it with means, at least for me, not sacrificing to get there. I know what I want and I would rather be patient until I find the right person than rush down the aisle just to check the long awaited box.

Making a house feel like a home is the role of a woman and mother, something you take pride in doing and have a passion for everything related to that. My family has a lot of recipes collected over the years and generations, I want that trend to continue. Seeing my wife chatting with my mom in the kitchen as she learns some of our family recipes, and bonding with her through that, is the mental image that puts a smile on my face. Homesteading is ideally something you already practice in your daily life and wish to make a bigger part of your life. Decorating, interior design, crochet, knitting, being crafty and having a feminine touch in everything you do.

Emotional availability and no walls or barriers keeping you from sharing your thoughts, feelings, and emotions. You have no desire to be my peer. Giving yourself fully to me is a deeply rooted need, in exchange for love, protection, and respect. If you have no experience, or minimal, when it comes to dating or sexual exploration... that is even better. If you are a virgin that would be ideal. Pair bonding is very important to me and so the less experience you have the more intense and deep that connection would become quickly over time.

As far as appearances go for me: I have always been told I am conventionally attractive. Tall with a slim/athletic build and slight dad bod vibes, definitely not ripped but not at all fat, overweight or out of shape. If you are into jacked muscular guys, I’m not him. Usually I have a full beard but randomly will trim it down to regrow, and light eyes with fair skin. Reportedly my best features are my voice, hands, smile, and eyes.

Surface level for you: I prefer short women in good shape with minimal body fat, perky and firm features, and femininely stylish. Fair skin and light eyes/hair are also preferred but not required. My main consideration is if you take good care of yourself physically, and it shows. I recently hiked a few mountains and would want to go on adventures like that together, and as a family. Big breasts are great, but I am not going to be put off because your cup size isn’t DD. A nice set of slim legs with a thigh gap is one of my weaknesses. Overall, while looks do matter to me if your personality and goals do not vibe with my own then none of this matters.

Sexual chemistry is very important to me. I would be lying if I said I don't have a high sex drive and need physical, and emotional, intimacy every day. In the past I have had many relationships where I feel like I am giving lots of love and affection without receiving an equal amount in return. I need a woman who is warm and carefree with her love. Being affectionate is something that gives you joy to express, loving me is another way of loving yourself, because every investment in me is an investment I will make in you.

What I need is a woman who feels happiest in a submissive, but complimentary, role with me as a dominant and paternal figure. Evolving into eventually something that feels to us like a father and daughter relationship. I realize this is not for everyone, but to me there is no more beautiful or romantic dynamic we could share in my mind. If you identify as a little and feel like a child at heart, I want to nurture that and give that part of you a safe place to be as vulnerable as you can be. If you don’t identify as a little and identify more as just a submissive, I would encourage you to give me, and yourself, the opportunity to discover that part of yourself together with me.

This is not role play or fantasy for me in terms of our dynamic together. Something I really want, really need, is to know when I get married and am looking into my soon-to-be wife’s eyes that I see her as my daughter and she sees my as her Dad. Not in a “kinky role play” sense but deep down, and so real and so true for us that it is just a fact, like the color of my eyes or my hands in yours at the altar. If any of that is off-putting, we are probably not compatible. However, if reading all that awakes something within you or spoke to a deep need you already have had but never felt comfortable sharing, please keep reading.

The TPE dynamic is something else I am interested in, which flows together with what I have already described. Getting to the point where “no” isn’t even an option or something you would want to say, because you have complete and unquestioning trust in me and know that no matter what, whatever I do, it is best for you, me, us, our family.

Kinks and limits are best discussed in private, but I am looking for a woman who is open to trying anything and everything many times. No limits beyond a few exceptions like scat or anything involving blood or gratuitous violence. I do have a sadistic part of myself, but that part goes hand-in-hand with my nurturing side and I do not enjoy causing pain for the sake of it. Humiliation and degradation are not things that interest me either, because it is contrary to my role as a caregiver and paternal force in your life. You are a masochist to some extent and would rather have your limits pushed rather than staying static and complacent. You are bi or at least bi-curious. You have deep maternal instincts and desire to be a Mommy as much as a submissive/little and the thought of MDlg, DDlg, and age play appeal to you greatly. Cum is something you crave, whether you have had it or not, and every aspect of it from the color, texture, taste, and even small are intoxicating for you.

What all this means in practice is a rather long and explicit conversation that I want to have as we get to know each other privately over time. I will only say that being with me requires a completely open mind. Not just a willingness, but an eagerness to explore ourselves and the world together, even the things that are off limits for most. I get off on my partner getting off, I smile when she smiles, and I am looking for a woman who feels the same way about me.

I like the analogy of being painter with a blank canvas. In order to paint the best picture, I need a canvas that is strong, sturdy, clean, and will absorb and hold what I put on it. As a painter, I would be nothing without a canvas to paint on, and you as a canvas would be nothing without the painter and his brushes. Just to reiterate the point, blank means blank. I want to teach you and raise you as if you were my own, which means starting from scratch.

Most importantly, I need you to be my best friend. Someone I can relax with, have deep conversations together, play board games, video games (even if you just watch me play or read a book in my lap or next to me as I do), banter back and forth with witty dialogue, and be able to trust an confide anything with each other knowing it is safe to do so no matter what. No judgment. Only love and support.

A little bit about me outside romance and sex: I am a professional photographer, avid reader and writer, mountain climber on occasion, swimmer, volunteer, video game enthusiast, filmmaker, film buff and documentary consumer, audiobooks at night, don’t drink alcohol, piloted a plane or two, want to get more into pottery, technology is my second passion from hardware to software, politically active, and a lot more. While I prefer the indoors to the outdoors usually, it all depends on where I am and what I am doing. Travel is another big passion for me and I have been all over the world exploring. I wouldn’t hesitate to give up or cut back significantly on most of my hobbies to focus on a relationship and family since that is my priority. I try and live my life to help others and be a selfless and humble person, but at the same time I am sarcastic and witty enough that people mistake that for who I really am deep down. Don’t take me too seriously. Assume I have the best intentions and I will do the same for you.

Despite me possibly coming off as an overly serious person, I can assure you I am very easy going, albeit intense. Being able to laugh at dry humor or sarcasm, question yourself and the world, be patient and understanding, always assume best intentions, enjoy dark humor, and much more will give us the fertile ground to grow our bond together.

I’m writing all this, which has become much longer than I originally anticipated or intended, because I want to find YOU. I do want to shape you, mold you, teach you, raise you, etc. but start from the foundation of someone I already love and adore the way they are. I don’t want to take away who you are as a person in order to help you become what I need and want. Although I do believe that part of the relationship dynamic that I seek is to take that canvas I described earlier, perfectly fitted for the painter’s brushes and types of paint, who you are deep down is not something I would ever want to strip away.

Politically you are either conservative or non-political. Don't waste either of our time if you are progressive or are not pro-life. Not necessarily political but I am not interested in someone who is on birth control or has been in the past 5 years, bonus points if you have never touched the stuff.

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I prefer voice calls over texting, but I know life doesn’t always permit that easily. The main thing is daily and frequent communication. Good morning and Good night messages, checking in throughout the day when you can, etc. Being clingy is great. I would much rather be with a woman who is codependent than a woman who is independent.

If you read all of this, please take the time to write a reply that lets me know you did and you are serious.