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40 [M4F] #NJ/NY/PA/Anywhere - Very tall, very handsome. Let's create something special.
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Labrad0r is a male age 40 looking for a female in New Jersey
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Important disclaimer:

  1. I am NOT looking to find someone to just dirty chat with about getting pregnant, to send you money for photos, to join your premium snap, to subscribe to your OF, to have contact with guys, or for a donor situation.

  2. I AM looking for: The mother of as many children as we can manage, who also wants to be a stay at home mom raising our family. The matriarch of our perfect pack.

Ok, now that's out of the way.

I am 40, 6'4, very handsome, white, American male of almost entirely German and Scandinavian heritage. I have blond hair, green eyes, fair skin and light freckles. I am clean cut and have trimmed blond facial hair. I've played hockey my entire life and while I am no longer in game shape, I keep myself fit. I am very successful in my career and financially stable enough to very comfortably support our family. I also teach in a Masters program at a local university. Within 5-7 years I plan to make the move from industry to teaching as my primary vocation. More time with family. I own a beautiful home in an affluent beach town in New Jersey as well as a cabin in the Catskills.

Missing from this picture is my other half. A family. Perhaps that is you and what we can build together.

Perhaps you also feel something is missing from your life. Perhaps you're realizing that all that education might have led to a couple degrees, a respectable salary and lots of professional success, but an empty home. Perhaps you just want to say "to hell with this," walk away from it never to look back, and start a family.

We obviously need a connection. Things I am passionate about: connecting with nature and our humanity by avoiding technology and spending time in the outdoors. I am a pretty serious outdoorsman, accomplished distance hiker and bowhunter. I am active in my community. I love to immerse myself in literature and music. I prefer to take 2-3 vacations per year, ideally 1 domestic and 1 abroad. Add a few long weekends on top of that.

Other things you probably want to know:

  • I am in this situation because I prioritized career, advanced degrees, and social life through my 20s and most of my 30s.
  • I do not have any children.
  • I have never been engaged or married.
  • I do not, and have never, had any STD
  • I have a very high IQ, as do all of my immediate and first-degree extended family. They are also all very successful in their careers.
  • There is no historical trend of chronic illness in my family including heart disease, cancer, obesity, etc.
  • I prioritize my health and hygiene in a big way. Gym 4-5x per week. Annual blood work and physicals. Never miss a trip to the dentist.
  • No drugs, non-smoker aside from an occasional cigar. Alcohol sparingly.
  • I eat a carnivore diet with very few excursions. If this bothers you, I understand.
  • I have not received a vaccination of any sort since prior to my undergraduate studies. This includes the COVID shots. If this bothers you, I am glad we got it out of the way now.

You don't need to align with or adopt all of the above, but please be aware I do not intend to bend on any of it so please be ok with it. At a minimum however, please be easygoing, open minded, someone who prioritizes their health, and who wants to have a family.

I have made a few posts here (and on subs like this) in the past but have not had success. I have tried all the apps but discouragingly, at least in my area, most of the women I see on there have kids already or are very clear that they never want kids. To each their own, but not for me.

Hope to hear from you soon.

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