Although I’ve posted in different subs before, it didn’t result in anything and the conversations I had felt wholesome. I feel like I had good experiences in other subs, so I figured it would be worth giving another post a shot to see who else might be out there; it doesn’t hurt to see what else is out there.

I’ve been pretty fortunate to be gainfully employed and independent. While I have a professional, well-paying job and have traveled frequently and experienced much throughout my 20s, there’s just something “more” I’m missing in life that I can’t quite place a finger on, and that something is a child to either call my own or be able to help someone else take that next step of parenthood.

There’s something special with talking to someone who wants to have children with you that makes you feel at ease. It feels like you’re creating something together, and I feel like it’s as close as you can get to another human being on a spiritual level. It’s something that’s hard to experience with just a regular hookup; there’s a deeper sense of purpose involved. I’ve posted before and actually had someone I met up with, and if it wasn’t for some outlying circumstances, maybe it might have worked out. Planning for children is anxiety provoking, yet fun and optimistic at the same time. I’m optimistic that things will work out this time around.

I think the “ready” part of it is the most important aspect of it, for it takes a lot to raise a child in a loving environment. Now that it’s viable for me, I figured it would be worth a shot to post again and see if there’s anyone else out there that might be interested, whether that be coparenting, donating or something else entirely. It’s unconventional for sure, but maybe if someone’s also looking on this thread, maybe they’re looking for something unconventional too. I also want someone who’ll be respectful of my culture and someone I can mesh with well. I honestly don’t have a type for the most part in terms of race or body type; just someone who’s responsible, empathetic and looking for the same.

I can also be as discrete as possible in a donor situation and I don’t mind traveling for the right person. To me, it’s really about the individual or the couple who wants to start a family together and I don’t mind being someone to help if it brings other people the joy of starting a family together. Definitely message me if you’re looking for the same.