hello, i’ve no kids/never married seeking the same. educated, latina, average height, bbw, bilingual, pretty, love my family, introverted, very femme, infj, well-read & well-traveled. photo: https://imgur.com/a/1glAOuO

a lot of people in the dating world are childfree and not marriage-minded these days, which is cool, but im looking for someone who has a similar vision for life as me. i get that this is a nsfw sub but i need y’all to be the gentlemen you are inside. so let’s get into it!! 💖✨

you’re a man who… * lives according to your truth and your values. * is happy where you are in life. * understands that love is an action you take and daily choice to deliver those actions. * lives to serve & protect/provide for your family. * wants 1-5 kids & can provide resources while i carry & raise them. * max 40 years old unless you’re incredibly successful and can pass that on to children. * height, race, no hair don’t care. * if you’re packing, it’s a plus. * can either travel or host.

potential compatibilities: * someone of some kind of spirituality, not necessarily institutional. i am a cradle catholic and currently exploring omnism with my root in christianity. * someone who enjoys reading nonfiction. * someone who enjoys the arts/media in all/many forms. * someone interested in homesteading & agroforestry. raising livestock for 🥩 is a hard no from me however.

potential dealbreakers: * i have always been counter-culture, think outside the box, & go my own way. if you want someone blindly agreeing to you or a personal assistant, don’t look for her in me. * if you’re okay with kids before marriage DO NOT contact me. we are nothing alike. * i won’t create a football team of kids if i get health issues from pregnancy 🛑 have realistic expectations. even 1 is a gift.

before you message, understand… * ultimately, i am a values-based long-term decision maker. if you are currently unable to cover for mother and several young children do not contact me. * whenever i post on here, my inbox is flooded, so here’s my preemptive warning as a filter: bad energy, blocked instantly. ego triggered replies, blocked instantly. quick to sexual topics, blocked instantly. * sometimes there’s conversations that end up being so disappointing that i have to completely dip from dating altogether. i am truly not built for modern dating trends SO please don’t message me for frivolity, you’ll get in the way of this sub delivering a happy couple and babies for real haha. * because of the quality vs quantity of messages i tend to receive on here, i can confidently say that if you breathe, i probably don’t want you. i do want my singular compatible person however. 💝 * pictures up front move the process along quicker. * come correct, respectful, and send a proper introduction, maybe you’ll be blessed with a family. take care 🖤🖤