Hello there, I'm looking for serious messages only, so please read my post fully before reaching out. Also, I'm not selling anything so don't even go there please. I've seen posts from other women in my similar situation, so I thought I'd make my own post...

I'll start by giving some context about my situation. I'll avoid identifying details, but if we connect in private I'm happy to tell you more about myself. I'm 36-years-old and I've always been a "by-the-books" kind of gal. I grew up in a hyper-religious family so I had a conservative and strict upbringing. I take good care of myself. I used to run track in college and play tennis competitively. I stay active nowadays with Pilates, cycling, and running. Oh right, I'm 5'0" and have a small frame.

As for my professional career, I work in academia. My time is split between teaching and research. I'd prefer to not disclose too much out in the open at this point in time. In terms of my relationship, I met my husband in college and got married early. I never had a "fun/wild" period in my life because I attended an all-girls high school, then quickly got into a relationship once I entered college... Because of that, I've always been wondering "what if"... and lately I've been feeling frustrated and horny. My partner has never been impressive in bed, but after we had our second child things have just gone straight downhill. We rarely have sex, and he just feels uninterested.

You might be wondering what I'm looking for, and I'm honestly trying to figure out the same thing. I am physically located in NY. I'm from the west coast and I have family in TX and OH. Those are the 4 states that I visit frequently. However, I'm not looking to just meet up immediately and get freaky. I'm quite a shy and reserved person, so I'd want to keep this online first. If you live somewhere else, I'm still open to chat.

In terms of physical attraction, I'd have to say I'm only interested in masculine men. Not to sound like every other woman, but muscles (e.g., abs) and fit/athletic men are my weakness lol. It would also be a huge plus if you're experienced. Even though I'm in my mid-thirties, I'll have to admit that I'm quite inexperienced when it comes to sex... so men who like to take charge are definitely welcomed. I don't mind if you're in a relationship or if you're single. It's fine if it's complicated, because I'm in a pretty complicated situation myself. I've always been curious about younger men as well, so age requirements are flexible :).

If you do choose to reach out, it would be great if you included a photo of you and your age. Location would be nice too. Talk to you soon!