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So My ex and I dated for 4 years. Then for 4 years we were intimate. So a total of 8 years. 4 official & 4 not officially. We broke up the first time because we kept fighting about him going out with his co worker. He would be her date to every single family party & even spent New years with her. So we finally broke up and he told me "We are never getting back together" (We were living together at the time) I went out that night with friends had 1 too many drinks and ended up not coming home. He found out a few weeks later and got super mad even thought we were broken up. ( I just felt like I did not have to tell him since we were broken up. He found out because he went through my phone. So he decided to be intimate with 2 different girls to get his revenge. So we decided to stay intimate exclusively for 4 years after and recently last year he asked what I thought about getting back together I said well I am just starting school lets get back together next year. He agreed, I live 2 hours away from him. I do not have a car so i use Public Transportation to see him at least once a month. I do not have my own place but He just got his own place with 2 random roommates & he just got a car in his name. So this year when I said want to try it again he said Im not ready for a relationship. I said ok we can wait. Then recently 2 weeks before 4/20 he met a girl and they started to hang out and suddenly 4 dates later they were intimate and dating officially. He told me I met a girl and "you live too far away" you do not have a car, & you do not have your own apartment and do not have any goals and you want to become a doctor.) The funny thing is I am graduating in 13 days, I am getting a car in 13 days. He told me the girl he wants to date are 1. Older 2. Has not been with a lot of guys 3. a Goal orientated girl, 4. Lives close & is not a doctor ) The girl he recently started dating 1. She is 22 years old has been with 15 guys and is becoming a veterinarian BUT she is leaving OUT of the country for 3 years in September which is 5 months away. So she is going to be miles away, apart and time zone is going to be different. Then she plans on going into the Army. His plan was to visit her every 4 months then after 1 year move in with her. He wants to be friends with me though..... A little about him, He drives for Uber eats (barely makes enough for his rent and car (because he complains about it all the time), does not have a degree at all, just got a car in his name and just got an apartment that he shares with 2 other guys. He also usually will only text me once a day now but I rarely text back. Then one day he texted me 5 times in a day saying "You have been distant." Also he told me while they were intimate he almost said my name. & he could not stop thinking about me during. Also i Posted photos & he texted me "You look great in your photos."
I even asked him if he still had feelings for me. His response "Not while I am in relationship." I do still love you & care about you though. I am kinda upset because now this new relationship he is doing everything I asked him for ,his attention, his acknowledgment that I am his girlfriend. Now he is posting photos of her everywhere (something he never did for me) He even now turns on his location which while we dated he never did. He turned his location on for me to see even though he is dating her. He also lets her hang out and talk to her ex of 4 years. He also said "I was thinking about it if things go south between my girlfriend & I would you try things again" (he said this the day me and him broke him" His girlfriend & him have only been dating not even a day yet when he said it. We were each others first everything </3
I guess I am asking what do you guys think? Do you think he is going to come back to me in September or sometime after because she is out of the country? Or do you even think they are going to last ? Please no trolls. I have been so hurt about this. Is he even going to miss me? Is he going to regret his decision
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