My girl broke up with me after living with her for 4 years, we’ve known each other since 94 and dated for 6 years back in our late teens early 20’s. We both went our separate ways but NEVER did we EVER lose contact with each other through out those in between years. We always emailed each other on birthdays, holidays and just to say hello and catch up. We ended up both getting married and having children. We ended back together about 4 years ago and I moved in with her. All of a sudden according to her. She just wasn’t happy anymore and felt we were better off not in a relationship. Now keep in mind she’s always tell me through out those 20 years that it has always been me. I was the one she was suppose to be with. I was the one that would take her granted and do stupid things but she would never turn me away or ignore me. We never cheated on our significant others with each other but we did talk a lot nothing more. So I’m trying to make this short and of course will answer any questions anyone has.

So now we’ve been broken up for about 2 months. We went 3-4 weeks of zero contact. I figured that was it. Although I found it strange she never asks for her apartment keys back. Fast forward to about 2 weeks ago and she’ll text me everyday day. Just to say hi and make small talk. Now we’ve been having sex again 2-3 times a week and texting like we are back together however I never text first. I’ve spent the night with her a bunch of times. We’ve gone out to eat grab drinks etc. always a goodnight and all that. She’ll often ask me if I’m ok, I always say I’m good or I’m fine. She says she doesn’t believe me but let’s it go after I just keep saying I’m fine. I hope this all makes sense my phone is seriously lagging for some reason. Anyway. I’m not sure what is going on with her. I won’t bring up the possibility of us getting back together. I refuse to. She hasn’t brought anything up on her end but she always wants to hang out, have sex, she’ll tell me where she’s going and when she gets there. I tell her she doesn’t have to tell me anything as it’s no longer my business and it just pisses her off when I say stuff like that. Man my phone is horrible I apologize so that’s it for now. What’s her deal?? I’m so lost.