Long term relationship of over 10 years ended and found out the next day she had started seeing a married man. After a couple weeks I figured out who it was and then his wife discovered he was cheating through his messages.

Now me and has wife have become good friends and are supporting each other through this process. Have been going out together with friends and making plans to travel together. While we often lift each other up we also go days of shot talking our ex’s together on their behavior and how this is hurting our kids.

My question is do you think this is healthy to continue to build upon this given how we were introduced?